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so today was about a 5 on a scale of 1-10…I have a head cold :cry, woke up to early as she was leaving :cry:cry but in a way that was a good thing because I had reset my alarm for my sister and it would not have gone off at the time I needed to get up! :scared
and needless to say my mind has been anywhere but where it should be lately :scatter
so I get home today…where I had a very sweet surprise :blush a balloon with “thinking of you” on it, and a very sweet note attached that you will NOT know the contents of…:lol
and my oldest son…wanting to talk…
yes…the talk that every gay parent gets to experience I’m sure…
I’ve always said from day one that my oldest was an old soul…I could see it in his eyes when he was born…and very curious about every little thing…not to mention smart as hell! so he had a lot of questions about my friends, one in particular that has been here a lot lately, and why did I marry his daddy :hammer
so we talked…he asked, I answered…and when all was said and done he had this to say
“Mama, you’re very lucky, to have people who care about you so much”
oh yes…that’s MY child :Woot
I just hope what he learns from me, won’t be scared out of him when he goes back :walk_sad

4 Replies to “oh boy…”

  1. Happy to see everything is turning around for you. You deserve it. You are an indredible person, caring understanding, supportive and with an incredible heart. I see it clearly and now you need to have some confidence within yourself so you can believe the same as everyone else feels about you. It’s your time to be happy in all aspects of life.

  2. Teresa, I give many props to you for being so open with your son. Many gay parents have such a hard time with that. Even if he does get “confused” when he gets back with his dad, he’ll never forget the honesty that his mother wasn’t too scared to share with him. That, my friend, is invaluable. :O) I’m glad things are looking up for you. You, of all people deserve it.

  3. T,
    you are strong in yourself and in your “lifestyle”. As you have stated your son is very smart and I know that he will take the honesty and advise that his mother has given him, not only home, but all the way through life as well. I know that a day will come when my own daughter is going to have questions about my lifestyle and I am taking with me what I have learned from you today. They were right when they said that honesty is the best policy.
    Be proud of yourself and what you have allowed your son to be open too. Obviously he is very smart cause he knows how much we love you.
    I am very proud of you.
    Ran

  4. I know you have been worried about this conversation, but as always, you handled it appropriately. Your boys love you dearly I know that better than anyone other than your family and yourself. Things will work out and life will be normal again ~ if there is actually any normal in life LOL ~ love ya bitch feel better!!!

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