I know how you feel, I’ve been going through the exact same thing at work recently… Hang in there, it’ll pass before you know it and will become part of your fond memories : ” Hey, remember when we got the new system? They were calling me so often after work that one night I simply crashed. Yes, man, its true. I was working so hard that…” See if what I say isn’t true.
*hugggs* I know what you mean. You get tired, then you get tired of being tired. So much bullshit going on in your life and you just need it to stop… on top of not having L there, or you being out there with her. Sometimes it seems it never ends… but it will. You can do this. You have gotten this far. You are amazing at work, and they obviously can’t do it without you. However, tell them to leave you alone during certain hours so that you can sleep, for Pete’s sake. Tell your friends to NOT call during certain hours, because you need your energy T. You need to be ready for this fight, and over heating your brain isn’t going to help you. If they are your friends, they will understand. IF they don’t, then you don’t need ’em. I’m thinkin ’bout ya, and keeping you in my prayers. Just remember, you have to take care of you in order to be able to take care of those kids. Now get some damn sleep!
It seems to me that you need to make it clear that unless you are being remunerated for ‘taking call’ then you need to let the office know, that you are NOT available to them 24-7. Nothing is wrong with helping out, and it is a good thing. There are lots of things in life that we do that we cannot run down money for. However, human beings, UNLIKE computers, do not run on electricity and need REST in order to function properly.
So, deal with office issues, at the appropriate time. We all have issues in our personal lives that need to be addressed, and if one does not give them the time and thought they deserve, life will simply do whatever the hell it feels like with us.
Get some rest and like Mad Bull said above, I suppose in time this will pass.
Hummm I thought I posted to this one already or maybe I covered it in a phone call……..whatever…….
but ummm when are you posting again??? HUH HUH??
I got something for that… *wink, wink*
oh I just bet you do darlin *s*
I know how you feel, I’ve been going through the exact same thing at work recently… Hang in there, it’ll pass before you know it and will become part of your fond memories : ” Hey, remember when we got the new system? They were calling me so often after work that one night I simply crashed. Yes, man, its true. I was working so hard that…” See if what I say isn’t true.
*hugggs* I know what you mean. You get tired, then you get tired of being tired. So much bullshit going on in your life and you just need it to stop… on top of not having L there, or you being out there with her. Sometimes it seems it never ends… but it will. You can do this. You have gotten this far. You are amazing at work, and they obviously can’t do it without you. However, tell them to leave you alone during certain hours so that you can sleep, for Pete’s sake. Tell your friends to NOT call during certain hours, because you need your energy T. You need to be ready for this fight, and over heating your brain isn’t going to help you. If they are your friends, they will understand. IF they don’t, then you don’t need ’em. I’m thinkin ’bout ya, and keeping you in my prayers. Just remember, you have to take care of you in order to be able to take care of those kids. Now get some damn sleep!
It seems to me that you need to make it clear that unless you are being remunerated for ‘taking call’ then you need to let the office know, that you are NOT available to them 24-7. Nothing is wrong with helping out, and it is a good thing. There are lots of things in life that we do that we cannot run down money for. However, human beings, UNLIKE computers, do not run on electricity and need REST in order to function properly.
So, deal with office issues, at the appropriate time. We all have issues in our personal lives that need to be addressed, and if one does not give them the time and thought they deserve, life will simply do whatever the hell it feels like with us.
Get some rest and like Mad Bull said above, I suppose in time this will pass.
Hummm I thought I posted to this one already or maybe I covered it in a phone call……..whatever…….
but ummm when are you posting again??? HUH HUH??