I was reading Dr. D’s and Desiree’s comments on the post about AIDS statistics, and had a little more to say.
I started what has turned out to be a long term relationship just about the time AIDS was rearing it’s ugly head. Each time AIDS has come up for discussion over the past 20 years I’ve shuddered at the thought of being thrown back into the dating pool. It’s difficult enough to be swimming there at my age; it’s even worse to have to contemplate dating in the age of AIDS.
I can just see meeting a really cool guy; deciding that THIS is one I’d be willing to allow to see me nekkid…..and then having to ask him for a note from his doctor, saying that he’s virus free.
Can you imagine that conversation??
HA…..I was just sitting here thinking about asking that question of some of the male bloggers I read, and the range of responses they’d have. Think about the different let-downs I’d get from T-bone, e-the merciless, Acidman, Sgt. Hook, Mad Bull or Dr. D.
T-bone would give me a witty disertation on how he loves the Petite Filet, -e- would have to check his social schedule to see if he could fit me in between the latest blog brawls, Acidman……well….I’m not going there….he’d speak his mind, and it wouldn’t be pretty, the Sgt. (who also loves his wife) would feel it was inappropriate for an officer representing the US, and Natty wouldn’t let Mad Bull do it (he ALSO loves his wife). Dr. D wouldn’t need a note from his doc, I guess.
Back to the subject. I understand just why AIDS is spreading. There’s not a person out there who would put themselves through that embarrassment. You’d have to be willing to accept a LOT of rejection. On the other hand, maybe it’s not such a bad thing. It would weed out the guys looking for a one night stand. You might actually find keepers that way.
Hm……Yahoo personals: WSF, virus free, seeing WSM, virus free. Interested in music, movies, theater, and hot monkey sex. Those without doctor certification need not apply.