Blech!
I have to look for a job. I’ve always known that I would need to find another job one day, but I’ve played “ostrich” about it. I’ve worked for Dear Husband’s company since 1986. Since I am two or more years younger than DH and his partner, I knew they would want to retire before I reached the age to claim Social Security. Well, the time has come to start looking. I need a job.
The biggest problem is that I have no experience looking for a job. I don’t know how to match up what I can do with what a company might need (or want) in an employee. Other than want ads, I don’t know where to look for jobs that might be suited to me. We always laughed about my working for McDonald’s for two years, but I doubt that I would be able to stand for a full shift day after day. I need to find a job where I can sit down.
I’m capable of listing my training and experience. I can find a template on-line to help me create a new resume. But I haven’t a clue how to go about matching what I can do with what a company needs. Where do I start?
Daily Archives: August 23, 2010
Monday
When I returned home Sunday night, I forgot to check the answering machine. I hate being tied to equipment that determines how I spend my time. I still haven’t activated the message center of my cell phone, so it’s not surprising that I didn’t check for messages.
Luckily, Dear Husband did. My exercise guru had called to ask if I could sub for her this morning. She is NEVER ill! She has led class with a cast on her leg, and she’s an amazing trouper, but she could barely speak last night. She thinks she has some sort of allergic reaction, and needed me to fill in for her.
I got out the posterboard “cheat-sheets” that I use to call the movements and set them out to review early this morning, and then headed for bed so that I would be well rested. I haven’t looked those sheets over in two or three months and was concerned about doing a good job.
This morning I made my cup of tea, and dressed for the day, and then I sat down to review the exercises. I remembered that I wanted to change the last cardio because there were too many repetitions of one type of movement. I plugged in some of the movements that we are doing in the current session, and then I reviewed the three cardio sets to be sure I knew what to expect.
My class is just wonderful. They cope like troupers when I lead the class. Even when I bobble something, they just keep exercising until I get it worked out. I think I goofed in just one place and everything turned out fine. I told them to work at the level they needed. They could do more than I was doing. If they needed to do less, or needed to protect a sore shoulder or hip, I told them to work at their own pace.
As we made the shift from cardio to resistance training, I paused and asked something special of the class. We have had a number of new members join us over the past two years, and there seems to be an “us against them” mentality. The newcomers don’t feel very welcome, and the original group feels that the exercise is changing because of the new people. That’s not the case, but it’s the perception. I’ve always thought if they made the effort to get to know each other, we could overcome some of that attitude, so I divided the class in half and gave the following instruction: “This side of class is to walk over to that side of class and introduce yourself to one person you don’t know, ask their name, and ask them to tell you one thing they like to do.” I was astonished at how well that turned out. I actually had to tell them to break it up! lol I plan to repeat the exercise in September when I’ll be leading class again.
Of course, everyone was clock-watching today because it was the day we were scheduled to go to breakfast after exercise. We celebrate birthdays once a month, and I’d say that perhaps two thirds of the class went to breakfast.
I love it when a day starts out well!
Sunday
We had a busy day yesterday. Dear Husband went sailing, and I attended the christening of one of my grand nieces. I was supposed to attend a party following the christening, but I needed to visit with Elegante Mother. My-Sister-The-Nurse was going to make a stop to check on her, and I needed to learn how to use a new piece of equipment.
EM is unable to assist with her own transport from bed to chair, and chair to recliner, and so on, so we are now using a Hoyer to move her. A Hoyer is a lift. A sling is placed under EM’s body, and it’s hooked up to the arms of the Hoyer. A hand pump is activated to lift her into a sitting position, and then you swing her to the chair and lower her in place. It’s really an amazing piece of equipment, and Elegante Mother treats it as her own personal Riverview ride. We thought she might be distressed at being moved in this way, but she is absolutely calm about the entire thing. YEA for EM and for us!!!! One more problem overcome.
I stayed to visit with EM for a while, reading to her from the “Country” magazine and generally keeping her company. She is so frail, it’s difficult to see her like this, but she has an amazing will to stay with us. As I’ve said, she’s the Energizer Rabbit, and she will go on, and on and on!
I’d put a roast in the crockpot before I left for the christening, and Dear Husband had everything pulled together for dinner by the time I got home. It was good to put my feet up and relax and just enjoy his company.