I was cleaning out drawers last night, and came across a yellowed scrap of paper that I had cut from an Ann Landers column years ago. William W. Quinn, Lt. General, U.S. Army (Ret.) had sent a letter to Ann, and I’m going to post part of it here.
“……reminded me of an article I had saved, although I don’t know who wrote it. The article said the world’s great civilizations averaged a cycle of 200 years. Those societies progressed through this sequence:
From bondage to spiritual faith
From spiritual faith to great courage
From great courage to liberty
From liberty to abundance
From abundance to selfishness
From selfishness to complacency
From complacency to apathy
From apathy to dependency
From dependency back again into bondage
As the United States has passed its 200th birthday, and in view of the recent epidemic of immorality, I wonder how your readers would assess America’s current position in this cycle.”
I believe that we are somewhere between abundance and complacency, but it’s difficult to pin down just where. Certainly the immorality, drug use, and astonishing numbers of people in prision are signs of a decline. On the other hand, the rise in church attendence and charitable organizations such as Habitat for Humanity show a positive side that still exists.
I’m concerned about a number of things I see around me. I think that a large part of the populace feels that there is no point in voting because their vote can’t accomplish anything. In the last election, the two candidates for President sounded like clones. I’ve never seen an election where the two parties were so similar in their platforms. Furthermore, a lot of the population believes, probably rightly so, that you can’t get elected unless you have personal wealth.
I’m also concerned about a lack of social manners. Simple things such as assisting an older person, or holding a door for the person following you, or being pleasant to a person providing you with a service…..at a check out counter, or a salon, or the post ofice, these simple things are being lost in a world that is very ego oriented.
And the need for instant gratification that I see in the young concerns me. The only thing my parents paid for over time was their home. Everything else waited until they had the cash to buy it outright. We have chosen to live similarly, with a couple of exceptions. When I was refinancing the house, I was obsessing over $1000 on a credit card right after Christmas. It seemed like an inordinant amount to have spent, and I was afraid we wouldn’t be able to refinance. The banker astounded me when he told me they MIGHT be concerned if I had $35 – $40,000 on credit. Who can live with that much debt hanging over their heads?
SO…..what do you think? Where are we on the scale of societal development? Are there other signs that we’re further along the slippery slide?
Daily Archives: May 4, 2003
Insomnia
I used to sleep like a rock. For years I could fall asleep just about anywhere, and sleep for 8 to 10 hours. I’m pretty sure that I’ve slept through at least two tornadoes. I never understood insomnia.
Well, tonight I have insomnia, and I have it bad! Over the past year I’ve developed a lot of discomfort that peaks when I’m trying to sleep. The doc thinks it’s arthritis. During the day I keep busy, and generally ignore the discomfort, but when I stretch out in bed, I’m likely to toss and turn, trying to find a comfortable position.
DH made it to bed tonight before I did, and between his snoring, and my aches, I just gave up and came to my computer. The one disadvantage about talking to people around the world is that they are generally not on line when you are! So….you get TWO posts for the day….and maybe more later on! *G*
What do YOU do when you can’t sleep?? Besides the very obvious (GRINS), I find that working in the office helps, or a small glass of wine, or sometimes reading a book. But you have to be careful about that book. If it’s too interesting, it can keep you up all night long, and defeat your purpose. I think I may find out why so many of my quilting friends quilt in the middle of the night! lol
I wish you all sweet dreams!
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Air Force woes
About three weeks ago, I read an article in the Chicago Tribune about Andrea Prosse, a former Air Force Acadamy cadet. It was this article that made me decide I wanted to blog, because I was so incensed at the state of affairs in our military academies.
Ms. Prosse was in the upper third of her class, and had shown exceptional leadership skills when she was sanctioned by her fellow classmates and forced to leave school, 8 days before graduating.
While she was a student, she had dated a classmate at the Academy, and when she chose to break off the relationship, he stalked and harrassed her for more than a year. She finally asked upperclassmen, and her instructors, for assistance, and was told she had to resolve the issue on her own.
In her last semester of school, she was working on an engineering project, and the stalker accused her of lying about where she got the design for the engine she was using in the project. She had borrowed the design <u>with permission</u>, but she was tried by her peers and and forced to leave the Academy. Lying is considered an offense punishable by dismissal.
This woman was planning to become a fighter pilot, and then an astronaut, and now her plans will never see fruition. She doesn’t have her college degree, and since she can’t serve in the Air Force, the government is charging her for four years of education.
She chose to come forward about all this, because even if the case is overturned, and she is reinstated, her male classmates feel she has broken the code by speaking out about a fellow classmate, and has dishonored the Academy in doing so. She will never be able to effectively lead as an officer with this in her background, so this web of lies has destroyed her life long plans.
I have a <b>HUGE</b> problem with an institution that encourages this type of behavior. My tax dollars are going to support a place that feels loyalty to the institution is more important than honesty. Furthermore, the male cadets closed ranks behind the male cadet despite the fact that his actions were clearly self-serving, and this points up the fact that the future leaders of our military place little value on gentlemanly behavior, and NO value on women in the service.
All of this has come on the heels of of 47 women telling their Congressmen that they had been raped or assaulted while they were at the Air Force Acadamy. (Ms. Prass was assaulted by an upperclassman.) At least four of the top officers at the Academy have been asked to step down, but I don’t think changing officers at the top is sufficient. Women who elect to serve our county shouldn’t have to worry about defending themselves from OUR military personnel.
I don’t have the solution to this mess, but I want to see those in charge take the matter more seriously! What do YOU think? Is there a place for women in the services?