And THIS (ta daahhhh) is what the new roof looks like:

Brrrrrrr!!
My word, it’s cold! When I got up this morning it was just 16 degrees outside, and right now, it feels about sixteen next to these windows!
For Elegante Mother, we have the temperature set at 72 degrees. If she didn’t live with us, the temperature would be at 68 during the day and 65 or so at night. I’m usually too warm, and would willingly lower the thermostat for the winter, but Elegante Mother is going to be 89 on December 7th, and she tends to look blue if we turn the heat down too far.
I’ve been trying to get her to get up and move around, but she doesn’t seem to believe that being active will keep her warm. I have the perfect idea for this afternoon, though. I’m going to bring the box of ornaments up from the basement, and have her work at decorating her Christmas tree.
It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas…..
Well, drat!
I was just over at WHUZZUP!, seeing what Eric had to say, and he made a suggestion that was SO sensible.
Go read what he had to say about comments on Thursday, November 17th, in the post on spammers. Just disregard the entry on the penis-enlarging pills, and scroll down.
Do you suppose he’s right, and that most of us have been doing this backward? After all, he has had a blog since 1998….a year BEFORE Blogger came along.
What do you think?
AIDS
This week, the figures have been on the radio, on TV and in the newspapers.
40,000,000 people have HIV/AIDS. 2,300,000 of them are children.
It’s expected that 3,000,000 people will die of AIDS this year, and half a milllion of them will be children.
More than 25,000,000 people have died from AIDS since 1981.
Of the 6.5 million people in developing countries who are infected with HIV/AIDS, only one million of them are receiving life prolonging drugs.
More than 6,000 young people (ages 15-24) become infected world wide every day.
There are more than 1.2 million people in North America living with HIV/AIDS.
The statistics are chilling, especially those dealing with children.
A Quandary
I was talking with Dear Husband about something that has been taking place when we host my family at major holidays. My sisters, and their adult daughters bring “bread and butter” gifts. There’s nothing wrong with bread and butter gifts, but it seems as though the cost of these gifts has been rising steadily over the years.
Where someone might have brought a jar of something they had canned, or a candle, or a pot holder, now the gifts are getting up scale. At Thanksgiving, I received a beautiful bowl painted with a country style pumpkin design, a chocolate dipping pot, a jar of gourmet chocolate and two pound cakes, a pot with three of the most gorgeous poinsettias, and a gift basket with five or six items for Mexican appetizers and hot chocolate. And, my niece who was in an accident sent the most beautiful bouquet of flowers I’ve ever seen.
Has there been an announcement I missed that has stepped up the gift giving?
I routinely take gifts to my hostess. I’m sure there have been times when I missed, but generally, I try to show my appreciation for having been invited with a small gift. I’m concerned about this increase in the size or quality of the gift. Is this just a reflection of our stage of life, where we can afford to give more?
Dear Husband suggested that my family was just trying to show me how much they enjoy celebrating at our house. He went a step further and said that perhaps they were showing their love for me. How can I argue with that??
So…I guess I’m going to have to do a better job of shopping before we go visiting.
Speaking of quilts….

I had to move the lamp that usually sits on the table, to take this picture. This quilt took me several years to piece. I had about a third of it done when I ran into difficulty getting the piecing right at the points. One evening I sewed the row five times and STILL didn’t get it right.
A trip to the optometrist helped, and I resumed work a couple of months later. I think I played with it for a year or so before I was willing to send it off to be quilted. The quilt on the wall is a Friendship Star quilt. You can see that I love stars. The quilt thrown over the back of the chair is a star quilt, too.
Quilt Room in a Bag
I was approached after Katrina hit our shores by a woman who had read my blog, and knew I am a quilter. She had developed the idea of pulling together things for quilters who had lost everything in the hurricane, including the material to make a quilt.
I got started on the project, and then asked my Friday Night Quilt Bee if they wanted to participate. We’ve pulled together a variety of items the average quilter has in her quilt room: pins, needles, a magnetic pin holder, fabric and paper scissors, thread, needle threaders, marking pens, colored pencils, a Pigma pen for signing quilts, a pin cushion, safety pins, a bag of embellishments (buttons, beads, Yo-Yos, floss), two quilting books, a quilting hoop, template material, an Olfa rotary cutter, a mat and a ruler. We also added a package of comfort items like tissues, hand cream, Advil, playing cards, stationary and stamps.
Elegante Mother and I searched our stashes of fabric to find the material for a red, white and blue quilt top that is 68 inches wide and 88 inches long. I cut the blocks, sashing and setting blocks. We supplied fabric for the outer border, and yesterday I bought a wonderful fabric in shades of blue to white in a hydrangea pattern for the quilt backing. (I wish I had purchased a bit o that for my stash!)
We added our favorite batt to the collection, and I gathered scraps for the hearts that are to be appliqu
Wednesday
I just wrapped my first Christmas gift. Well, actually, it’s Dear Husband’s gift. He has a haircut tomorrow night, and wanted to take a gift to his stylist. We all recognize that wrapping gifts is not DH’s forte, so I lend a hand where I can.
While I wallowed in misery today (due to my cold), I spent some time ordering Christmas gifts on-line. I took care of three women who help me in my capacity at the office for our masonry company. One woman is our CPA’s assistant, and the other two are employed by supply companies. Dear Husband takes care of the gift certificates for our general contractors, and I take care of the support staff.
We had to make a trip today to pick up two lap quilts Elegante Mother had machine quilted. While we were out, I stopped for gift certificates at Panera Bread for our postal carrier and UPS man.
I found two gifts for one of my nieces, three for Dear Husband, and one for one of my sisters. I was really booking, despite the cold.
We had left overs for dinner tonight. I put the disaster potatoes back into the oven to see if heating them longer would help. It didn’t. DH thinks that there must have been something wrong with one or more of the potatoes that I used. The sauce was really tasty, but the potatoes still seemed half cooked.
Tomorrow, I’ll be mailing one of the Quilt Rooms in a Bag that I talked about in an earlier blog. We found a woman who had been sent to the Chicago area when so many were evacuated after Hurricane Katrina. I’m still looking for a recipient for the second bag. They showed part of an 80 mile stretch of the Gulf coast in Mississippi and Louisiana, and it looks like they’ve hardly made a dent on what needs to be done. I can’t believe the Federal government has not stepped up to help get them back on their feet.
Christmas decorations are very slowly starting to appear here. I took down the Thanksgiving wreath and put up one of fresh greens. I bought wreaths with burgundy bows to slip over the carriage lights. I need to decide whether I want to decorate the mailbox pillar, and if so…how.
Office work, laundry, dishes…you know the drill. I’ll be glad when I feel better.
Have you ever had one of those days when everything looks fine on paper, but the reality misses the mark by a mile??
That would describe today.
T-boned

I wrote about my niece being in a car accident the week before Thanksgiving. This is a picture of her car, after it had been towed. She described being sheltered by a tarp, with a paramedic checking her vital signs, while the firemen used the “Jaws of Life” to open her car door. I was rattled when I learned she had been in an accident. The next day, when I took her to collect her belongings from the car, I was afraid I would cry when I saw it. It wasn’t as bad as I had feared. Still…you hate to know that someone precious to you was wrapped up in something that looks like this.
On Thanksgiving we had a LOT to be thankful for!