The flu has hit here. I came down with it late Sunday night and am just getting over it now. Unfortunately, it’s moved on to my Mother. We’ve been doing a lot of sleeping here, and sitting around bundled up in quilts.
Saturday, Dear Husband stayed home from the boat. We went to the Farmer’s market at 7:30 to pick up shears and knives that had been sharpened for us, and then went on to haircuts.
We stopped at the meat market and chose enough items to carry us through the week. He wanted to try the cabbage rolls (they don’t do much for me), and he plans to marinate kebob meat. We’ve already had parmesan/garlic chicken breasts and there’s a rolled pork roast for a family gathering later this week.
We had breakfast before we returned home. I had some watering to do, and I worked on mail, and then we went to Dear Husband’s FORTIETH high school reunion. I’m still marveling about that. How could 40 years have passed since high school?? I still feel about 30 in my mind, so I’m SURE 40 years couldn’t have passed…. Well, actually, it hasn’t been forty years for me, but it won’t be long.
At any rate, one of his classmates invited everyone to her home, and about 60 people showed up. There was a lot of picture taking and sharing, and the meal was served about 3:30 under a tent. Picnic food: chicken, ribs, potato salad, beans, coleslaw, corn muffins, and a cake. We took soda pop and iced tea. A good time was had by most.
Last week, I ordered three cubic yards of cedar mulch. I found a place that had such a good price on delivery that I ordered a better grade of mulch than I would have origionally purchased. Sunday morning I started spreading the mulch. It will take a while because we are into some rainy weather. I was pleased to get two chrysanthemums planted and I worked on the mulch. There’s something about finishing off weeding and mulching….it gives such a clean look to the beds.
I’d like to make a quick trip to the nursery, and pick up some daylilies. There’s a spot that’s been weeded that is just calling out for them! The strip where I planted ornamental grass and Joe Pye weed is coming along nicely. I’ll need to put regular weed eating on my list of chores from now on, to keep that stretch looking nice.
So….I spent this morning in the office. It was a quiet way to recuperate from the flu and still get something done. Accounts Payable, Accounts Receivable, organizing the mail, paying taxes, cleaning off the desk…it all gave me a sense of accomplishment.
Maybe we all need some quiet time to organize our lives.

Dear Husband and I were watching the Leherer Report on Chicago’s PBS station, WTTW, this evening. When our troops went to Iraq, WTTW began showing pictures of the men and women who have been killed in the line of duty. They show them in silence, giving you enough time to read their name, rank, service, home town, and age. It’s incredibly moving to see pictures of these young people, and think about the families they have left behind, and the lives that will never be lived. What an incredible loss.
We have it wrong….. We should be sending our old men to war, not our babies.

I am here to tell you that you can’t skip exercise for six weeks and then return, assuming that you could pick up where you left off.
I thought that my gardening would have kept me in shape, but I was wrong. My exercise guru manages to work more muscles than I do gardening, and I can feel every little one of them.
I’ll just be over here…..applying Ben Gay.

Pay close attention here. I’m only going to say this once:
The following two posts are prime examples of how I write when I have had about four hours of sleep and my head is practically falling onto the keyboard with the need for a nap.
Since I am still sleep deprived, it took me a few moments to determine just what was wrong.
Disregard the following posts, or if you can’t do that, don’t worry. I just need sleep!

No, I havn’t been off introspecting all this time. I seem to need some organization in my life, and I’ve been working on it in bits here and there.
It started with some work in the gardens. During the growing season there is work needed in the gardens on a daily basis. When I’m away and miss a string of those days, I have a lot of catching up to do. I’ve made a good start, but there’s always more to do.

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I was reading over at Broad at Bat’s blog today. Her entry for August 4th is very introspective. I had to make myself read all the way to the bottom.
I know that sounds bad, and it has nothing to do with the quality of her writing, and all to do with my ability to play “ostrich” about my own situation.
Being introspective gives me the willies. If I took the time to look into my heart, or my mind, I might actually figure out what drives me, and it that’s GOT to be scary! On the other hand…..I’m getting to a point in life where it might not be a good idea to drag my feet on this.
The power of positive mental attitude. Who used to talk about that? Was it W. Clement Stone? I can’t remember, but it seems to me that our physical health has got to start with a healthy mental attitude about life, and our place in life.
Somewhere, my healthy attitude has gotten set aside, or lost along the way. I’m willing to admit that I HATE exercising for the sake of exercise. Give me something to do that disguises the exercise, and I don’t mind so much, but exercising because I know it’s good for me sucks pond water! And yet, I know that’s just what I have to get myself to do. So….WHY have I waited so long to embrace that issue? See, what I mean about introspection? Do I really want to know if I have a death wish, or if I’m just terminallly lazy?? Gives me the willies….
I’ve been reading a series of books by Janet Evanovich. The main character is Stephanie Plum, who has lost a job as a lingerie buyer and had to turn to her cousin for a job. Unfortunately, Cousin Vinnie is in bail bonds, and he hires Steph as bounty hunter. She’s totally unprepared for the job in every way. She’s bailed out by a cop and a fellow bounty hunter again and again. Between having her cars blown up, and loosing her man repeatedly, she shops for Tastykakes……in every flavor…..by the pound. As I read about her eating junk food, or going to her mother’s for dinner (read: comfort food), one part of me nods in agreement. I can understand exactly how she feels. Another part of me is going…..”DON’T EAT THAT!” I feel really schizophrenic, and Evanovich must have read my mind before she wrote several of the scenes.
Okay….you just saw a prime example of my ability to play ostrich. I neatly detoured off the subject of introspection, and put the focus on a fictional character, moving it away from myself. I’ve been doing that for too many years to count, and I think I’ve just hit the wall. Pardon me while I bang my head against it for a bit.
Do I want to be healthy? YES
Do I want to be healthy enough to eat appropriately? Well….yes….sorta.
WHY am I not running to embrace a healthy lifestyle. Okay….ya got me there.
I really don’t know why, and I need to find out.
It’s time to quit pretending that I’m Peter Pan, and accept that I am an adult. And….it’s time to make adult choices. The question is…..where do I start?

If you’ve been reading my blog, you will know that my only cousin has passed away recently. Family and friends gathered for his wake and funeral, and it was a good send off. But, there’s just one little thing that has bothered me.
My cousin was in the Navy, so when it came time for his burial, the Navy sent two men to do the flag ceremony. The ceremony is very touching, with the solemn attention to the folding of the flag, and the slow-motion salutes. At one point, one of the men bent over, hit a switch, and we heard a recorded performance of “Taps.”
I suppose that no one else in the gathering gave it any thought, but I minded that Taps was not a live performance. I was a band director for eleven years. In my opnion, there are some places where a taped recording is inappropriate, and a funeral is one of them.
I’ve been pondering just how many trained musicians would be needed to play Taps in all the cemeteries where former members of our Armed Forces are being laid to rest. Although the Armed Forces have 500 buglers available, last year an average of 1800 veterans were buried each day. Arlington Cemetery is the only burial ground where taps is played live for every burial.
The Armed Forces felt that recorded music was inappropriate, and rather than supply trained musicians, they chose to purchase 4,000 “ceremonial bugles.” The bugles have a computerized chip imbedded in the bell which plays Taps. Unfortunately, some of the men responsible for the use of the ceremonial bugles need to be instructed in how to hold a bugle.
In my surfing, I discovered that Tom Day, of Berwyn, Illinois, has founded “Bugles Across America” to recruit civilian musicians to play taps at funerals. Day has gathered 3,000 volunteers, who have performed at 36,000 funerals in the past three years.
This seems like a much better way to deal with the increased need for buglers. I’m sure the military has prioritzed their expenses and that some may see a bugler as an inappropriate use of their funds, but I think we need to honor those who served on our behalf. Surely the presence of a trained bugler to play their final Taps is not too much to ask.

I will be barbequed by an angry dragon

How will you die? Take the Exotic Cause of Death Test
Stolen from billy…..who stole it from bogie…..etc.
I have to tell you….this sounds better than being impaled by a rod of frozen urine expelled from a jet liner….

I really need to pay closer attention to conversations.
Yesterday, DH’s son and his wife came to visit, before she returns to Japan to teach English as a second language. In his hand was a very large Swedish Ivy plant.
It seems I must have volunteered to babysit the plant while she is away, but for the life of me, I don’t remember the conversation!
DIL tells me that Son#3 has killed off several plants in the past few years. He waters once a week whether the plant needs it or not.
THIS was where I started paying attention. You see, by the time the plant got to me, it was wilting, so as she is talking to me, I have filled a large container with water and DOUSED the plant. Right…..I’m supposed to take care of this plant, and see to it that its in condition to return to her.
I could be in trouble.

I’ve never felt the need for a hen party, until now. I just discovered a company in England (and another in Midwestern USA) that provides a butler in the buff for your hen parties.
Wouldn’t it be lovely to have someone to open the door for you, and to see to it that your friends had something to drink?? And the clean up…..what a deal! You wouldn’t have to go around after the party picking up glasses and dessert plates!

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