I have writers block. I didn't think it would come so soon. Usually I have loads of things to chat about, but I can't find anything worthy of a full post.
I guess it's time to learn the art of pastiche.
I was visiting Jamie's blog and discovered that she was talking about the possibility of abortion being repealed in the U.S. This is an incredibly volatile subject, but I agree with her stand. I think women should have the right to choose what happens to their bodies. If a change is coming with respect to this bill, I hope they merely modify it, allowing women who have been raped the right of abortion. I agree that abortion should not be used as a form of birth control. We have enough birth control options open to us that there is no reason for a thinking woman who is choosing to have intercourse to be unprepared.
Along these lines, I'd like to see our welfare system modified. I was appalled to learn that there are generations of women on welfare, who gave birth to children in their teens, and their children had babies in their teens, and now the GRANDchildren are having children in their teens. There's something wrong with a system which keeps replicating the very problems we hope to cure. I'm willing to support a teenager long enough to get them through a training program or college course so that they can find a paying job. I am NOT willing to pay taxes to support a woman who chooses to have lots of children by multiple fathers.
This is what I propose: support for a specific period of time, for the mother and one child, child care during that period, and vocational training or two years of college. Should the mother choose to have another child during this period, her welfare rate would NOT increase: no additional income for additional children. It's time to make people responsible for their choices. I know this is a hard stand, and that it appears to make the children suffer, but I can't think of any other way to make the recipients of welfare want to be OFF welfare! What do you think?
The "Q" section of my Sunday Tribune yielded some interesting figures from a poll on infidelity. The following figures show the percentage of respondents who strongly agree that the following acts cross the line of infidelity when not done with a spouse or a partner:
Oral Sex
Men----85% Women----93%
Cybersex
Men---42% Women----64%
Kissing
Men---51% Women----69%
I rather understand the figures for cybersex and kissing, but I really wonder about the men and women who felt oral sex wasn't cheating. They must all be related to Bill and Hillary Clinton.....
There's an interesting discussion going on over at Mad Bull's blog. He wonders how many sex partners the average person has. Dr. D posted in a comment that the World Health Organization defines as promiscuous a person who has had 6 (six) or more sexual partners in a LIFETIME. There goes the neighborhood! On Dr. D's blog, the discussion is all about frequency of sex. Why is it that partners so frequently don't agree on what is right? I know that raising a family, or not having enough privacy enter into this issue, but for people who don't have those reasons, why do we change?
Okay.....I know you're saying that I don't have writer's block, but I do. Give me time, and I'll work my way out of this. My youngest sister's daughters are coming to visit for a week. They are 12 and 13. I may not have a lot of time to post, but I suspect that I will have plenty to say after the visit! We hope to make at least one trip to Chicago for some live theater and a stroll on Navy Pier. I'm sure there will be shopping and miniature golf, maybe even laser tag. Any advice on how to entertain these girls will be greatly appreciated!
Comments (6)
Wow! Six gets you labeled as promiscuos eh? Damn. And I always thought msyelf conservative.
Posted by Sgt Hook | June 19, 2003 8:49 PM
Posted on June 19, 2003 20:49
Ahhh....Sgt. Hook....you get an award for reading to the bottom of this post! I'm not sure what it is, other than maybe an extra hour in your day! lol
Posted by Buffy | June 19, 2003 9:55 PM
Posted on June 19, 2003 21:55
Hi Buff, thanks for the link. Agree with your stance re abortion completely. I will discuss that no further after having <a href="http://www.madbull4.net/testblog/archives/000734.html#000734"> posted about it earlier this year. </a> Made for some very intersting comments if you have time to read.
I have often wondered if the WHO is going to increase the figure of 6 in the definition of promiscuity. By my 'polling' amongst friends, schoolmates etc. (partciaularly males) over the years, the vast majority of us are promiscuous! (blushing).
Posted by Dr. D. | June 20, 2003 8:44 AM
Posted on June 20, 2003 08:44
Those figures astound me, Dr. D. I'm blushing right along with you. I can't choose who I would have given up, other than my ex-husband, to avoid being labeled "promiscuous." I assume that the figures are achieved by averaging information from participating nations, and that the figures are VERY low for the Middle East and third world countries. I have no idea what the figures are for China, although I suspect they are low. All the low numbers have to dilute the responses from countries where people are more sexually active. I assume that Scandinavia, Holland, and the US are at the top of the list for number of partners.
Posted by Buffy | June 20, 2003 11:37 AM
Posted on June 20, 2003 11:37
Honestly Buffy, I really can't answer that. Numbers of partners I do feel is very variable.
Posted by Dr. D. | June 20, 2003 9:13 PM
Posted on June 20, 2003 21:13
You know what? I wish I could have writer's block like you! Every day. I love reading your blog. I know I don't come everyday, but I'm fighting blog addiction (under instructions) :-) But whenever I do go visiting, your blog is a must-see. Why? Some real interesting writing, great topics. Big up, Buffy!
Posted by Mad Bull | June 21, 2003 12:12 AM
Posted on June 21, 2003 00:12