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    <title>Vandalism and Sabotage</title>
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    <published>2008-05-15T23:40:27Z</published>
    <updated>2008-05-16T00:36:04Z</updated>

    <summary>This evening, Dear Husband and I sat in the living room while we had a quick dinner. We were watching the news and there were two stories in particular that caught our attention. First, at a Boeing plant in Pennsylvania,...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This evening, Dear Husband and I sat in the living room while we had a quick dinner.   We were watching the news and there were two stories in particular that caught our attention.</p>

<p>First, at a Boeing plant in Pennsylvania, a Chinook helicopter going through final assembly was found to have cut wires.  A second helicopter had a washer where it didn't belong.  It gave me the chills to think that someone would willingly damage these helicopters, knowing that the crews who flew them might possibly die.</p>

<p>We both felt that this story was underplayed in the news.  I checked for the story at CNN before I began writing tonight, and felt they had underplayed it as well.  Perhaps there is a reason for this.  It may be that they didn't have the details yet.  They may have not wanted to speculate (although that doesn't seem to bother a lot of TV news departments these days).  Perhaps Boeing was not willing to have their name splashed over the news for substandard products, although it was clearly an act of sabotage.  They may have chosen to keep a lid on the story as security tries to determine what happened, and who might have had the opportunity to do the damage.</p>

<p>The second story was similar in a way, but was really one of local impact.  Four or five students at a Chicago middle school vandalized the school.  The news staff interviewed dozens of people from school staff and administration right up the chain of command to Mayor Daley.  The school authorities have not decided just what will happen to these students, but there is discussion of expelling them from school.</p>

<p>Tables were turned over, books and papers thrown to the floor.  Something was spread over, or ground into the carpet, and perhaps some equipment was damaged.  All these things could be repaired.</p>

<p>If the students are expelled, just what does that mean?  Will they be free to run around while the rest of the students finish out the last month of school?  Will they be allowed to return to school next fall, and repeat the year, or do they have to find a way to finish the last semester on their own?  I can see I really need to talk with my sister, Nan, who teaches kids "at risk."  Her school provides kids with their last chance at a public education before they are asked to leave the system.  </p>

<p>Dear Husband and I were of the opinion that in-school suspension, no extra-curricular activity,  and time spent cleaning up either their mess, or other messes, would be a better choice than expulsion.  By taking them out of an arena where they get any reinforcement for what they've done, and by making them work to repair damage, it would take the "fun" out of the rampage.  Now would be a good time for these students to learn that you have to be responsible for your action.</p>

<p>Let me say that we are concerned that a story which has national impact received less coverage than this local story.  While it occurred out of state, had the damage not been discovered, the sabotage would have increased our concerns about terrorism, and it could have had a global impact.  Perhaps terrorists have found a subtle way to redirect our focus, forcing us to review all that we do.  How can we know if we've hired a saboteur, or a patriot?  </p>

<p>On the other hand, perhaps we need to focus on the local level.  If we "nip it in the bud" as Barney Fife used to say, we might head off problems in the future.  Could it be that once a kid finds he can hold a school district hostage, be goes on to bigger projects?  Do saboteurs act to support a political ideology, or are they kids who were once vandals, looking for a bigger thrill.</p>

<p>I don't have the answers.  As usual, I have a LOT of questions, but I certainly hope that those people who have chosen to work against society, be they child or adult, learn that you have to be responsible for your actions.</p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>I Did Something Good...</title>
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    <published>2008-05-14T12:39:32Z</published>
    <updated>2008-05-14T12:54:10Z</updated>

    <summary>...for myself, yesterday. I had a mammogram, a dexa test, and a pap smear. I know....two of the most unpleasant tests women have to do, and I did them on the same day. But it went well. I had a...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>...for myself, yesterday.  I had a mammogram, a dexa test, and a pap smear.  I know....two of the most unpleasant tests women have to do, and I did them on the same day.  But it went well.  I had a radiation tech who really knew her business, and I think she may have taken just six "pictures."  That I'm not sure of the number is a testament to how well she did.</p>

<p>Last year, I went to a different facility, and was roughly pulled around and smashed into position TEN TIMES!!  I vowed never to go to that facility again.  This time, I was in the same building as my doctor, just steps away from my next test.  I think I may write a letter of commendation for the technician, because she did a phenomenal job.</p>

<p>Then, I had a visit with my doc, who did the pap smear.  She is incredibly deft.  I tend to dread this test because I've had doctors who apparently didn't know their anatomy, but this doctor is very good.  I prefer having a woman do the test.  I'm sure you know all the reasons.  It seems to me that someone who has the same plumbing as I do, responds differently to this test than those who don't.  I'm not guy-bashing.  I am just more comfortable having a woman do the test.</p>

<p>The results won't be in for a bit.  The tests have to be read, and then the results shipped to my doctor.  Finally, someone from the office has to mail the information to me, so I don't expect to know the results for a couple of weeks.  That's okay....I can wait.</p>

<p>I've scheduled fasting blood tests for both Elegante Mother and myself in June.  I've been talking with Joy, at  <a href="http://joyofsix.typepad.com/joyofsix/">The Joy of Six</a>, about weight loss and exercise, and how difficult it is to get yourself into the groove on things that will make your life better.  I told her that I may use the coming blood tests as a focal point to try to improve my diet.  Perhaps if I have a specific goal that isn't so overwhelming, I might have more success.  We can hope!</p>

<p>And.....I had a tetanus shot!  Since I'm playing around in the dirt, and Lord knows what's in that dirt after getting a new roof put on the house, and adding compost made elsewhere, it seemed like a good idea to get that shot.  </p>

<p>Am I ready for summer?  I sure hope so.  At least I don't have those tests hanging over my head, and I can get on with things!</p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Checking In</title>
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    <published>2008-05-11T15:12:16Z</published>
    <updated>2008-05-11T15:23:05Z</updated>

    <summary>We&apos;ve been having an amazing day! We rose fairly early, and Dear Husband and I put together a breakfast buffet for Elegante Mother and the two of us. It seemed to hit the spot; everyone left the table satisfied. We...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We've been having an amazing day!  We rose fairly early, and Dear Husband and I put together a breakfast buffet for Elegante Mother and the two of us.  It seemed to hit the spot; everyone left the table satisfied.</p>

<p>We gave the digital picture frame to EM and THAT was a hit!  YES!!  We explained that all my siblings could put together pictures of their families that could be played in this frame.  *G*  I can't wait for EM to start nagging them about the pictures! (chuckling)  Meanwhile, she is sitting, watching the pictures waiting to see who comes up next.</p>

<p>It's rained heavily, and is still raining.  So much water has accumulated at the south end of the herb garden that Mrs. Mallard is floating in the water.  She could actually swim, if she  didn't paddle too deeply! *G*  The wind is whipping the trees around, and it's chilly.  The wind seems to be from the northeast.  The gutters are having trouble keeping up with the rain running off the roof.  DH checked the sump pumps and one seems to be running a little slow, but we are still dry, and should continue to be so.</p>

<p>I'm going to fold some clothes and hang up most of our wardrobe, water the houseplants, and then I get to sew for several hours.  I'm trying to get the blocks pieced for my second grand-daughter's baby quilt.  there's nothing better than finishing a piecing project and getting it ready to be quilted! *S*</p>

<p>I hope you're all having a great day.  For those of you who are mothers, Happy Mother's Day!</p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Yard Work</title>
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    <published>2008-05-11T03:36:15Z</published>
    <updated>2008-05-11T04:00:55Z</updated>

    <summary>Ed&apos;s sitting in the curve of my arms as I type this. If there&apos;s an unusual number of typos, chalk it up to my communing with my cat... Yesterday, I spent about three hours in the gardens along my driveway....</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Ed's sitting in the curve of my arms as I type this.  If there's an unusual number of typos, chalk it up to my communing with my cat...</p>

<p>Yesterday, I spent about three hours in the gardens along my driveway.  I saw some weeds encroaching on my peonies that I knew had to be dealt with.  Several years ago I used the lasagna method to reclaim the center section of the garden along the lower driveway.  That bed is probably 60-70 feet long, and has three distinct sections.  The center area is still rather bare, but I've got  rudbekia, perovskia and some salvia started there.  I believe that I will be transplanting more plants into it fairly soon.  The north end of the bed needs weeding to kill off an infestation of Bouncing Bet, a plant that I put in the gardens years ago and can't seem to kill off, but there are day lilies, daffodils, iris, lamb's ears and more salvia settled in there.</p>

<p>The south end of the garden is really in disrepair.  I had planted physostegia and echinnacea over two-thirds of it, but the physostegia has died out, and there are places where I have sumac, poison ivy, grapevine and some shrubby volunteers that I really don't want.  I think I may transplant some of the purple coneflower to the center part of the bed, and move one beautiful meadow rue plant to a more shaded area, and then ask Dear Husband if he will help me take the rest back down to dirt.</p>

<p>Which brings to mind....  I called a local gardening company which is just getting established.  I asked if it would be possible to hire gardening muscle for either a morning or an entire day.  I need just one man, I think, to help lift lilies in mid-June.  When the owner called back to talk to me he told me that the best he could do was two men for an entire day, complete with truck, trailer and tools for $800.00!  HOLY COW!!   I COULD put two men to work for a full day, but the price is simply outrageous.  I hope DH will take this as a sign that my garden time is really valuable!</p>

<p>I think I will try calling a few other landscapers to see if they  are willing to spare a laborer for half a day.  I need someone who understands about lifting the iris with as little damage as possible, and once they have been lifted and stored where I can work on them in the shade, I want the soil amended so that I can replant.  I could put someone to work for an entire day, but not for the first price I've been quoted.  I hope there will be someone who wants the work.</p>

<p>I spent this morning raking up the weeds that I'd pulled on Friday.  I sawed down a few branches on the pear tree that had died, and I used the weed-eater to clean out an area that is getting infested with weeds.  I used the weed-eater around the edge of the front lawn gardens, and along the south side of the house.  It made me run a bit late for the Red Hat ladies, but it was worth it to get it done.  The next time out, I'll need to cut down volunteer shrubs and mulberries, perhaps on Monday.</p>

<p>It was good to get some of the cleanup done while the grounds were still moist and easy to work with.  There's a lot left to be done, but I'm glad I made the start.</p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Technology and Mothers</title>
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    <id>tag:www.redeaglespirit.com,2008:/arrrgh//6.4977</id>

    <published>2008-05-11T03:11:57Z</published>
    <updated>2008-05-11T03:35:47Z</updated>

    <summary>Mother&apos;s Day will be here in just a couple of hours. It&apos;s going to be a chilly, rainy day that we will spend inside, for the most part. Elegant Mother loves lobster. Unfortunately, her appetite is so small now that...</summary>
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        <name>Buffy</name>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Mother's Day will be here in just a couple of hours.  It's going to be a chilly, rainy day that we will spend inside, for the most part.  Elegant Mother loves lobster.  Unfortunately, her appetite is so small now that she can not eat an entire lobster tail at one sitting.  We discovered that Red Lobster has smaller lobster tails, so we offered to take her there for dinner.  One of my sisters will be joining us, so there should be something new added to our table talk.</p>

<p>It can be difficult to decide what to get Elegante Mother for Mother's Day.  In the past we have resorted to gift certificates to book stores, to hobby stores, or to nurseries.  Sometimes the gift is a day out, or a special meal on a weekend.  This time we broke our own rule and bought her something electronic.</p>

<p>I was shopping on Thursday at a office supply store and found a variety of digital picture frames were available.  The one I wanted, the simplest of those offered, had been sold out, but they were able to ship it to us from the warehouse the very next day.  Voilà!  Instant gift!</p>

<p>I purchased several flash drives on Thursday, and spent some time Friday night transferring pictures to them.  One was Red Hat Lady pictures that I wanted to share with the Queen of our chapter.  That was quite fortuitous, as they asked me to take pictures of everyone who attended the meeting today, so that we could create a photo book of our members.  It will all fit on the same drive.  I plan to repeat the picture taking next month, to try to get pictures of those who were absent today.</p>

<p>On the second drive, I'm going to collect all the shots I've taken of our exercise class over the past two years.  I can take the flash drive to one of the pharmacies or discount stores and have a set of the pictures printed and put it into an album for our leader.  I'm not a terribly good photographer, but I'd be happy to make copies of the prints for my classmates, if they wish.</p>

<p>And we come to that last flash drive.  I selected a range of pictures from the family computer and moved them to the flash drive.  I have more pictures on the office computer, but I'll have to shift those to a disk, and transfer them to the family computer because all the USB ports already have connections in the office.  Who knew when we bought it that we would want more ports!??</p>

<p>The digital picture frame is very easy to use (once you get the power supply connected properly.)  With the flash drive, it will hold tons of photos, and can be set to shift at a variety of speeds.  Best of all, I can give others in my family flash drives to fill, and we can swap the drives every now and then so EM can see all of her family.</p>

<p>We plan to surprise her with it tomorrow.  I'll make breakfast and plug the frame in while she's out of her sitting room. I can show her the on/off button.  It's all she needs to know! *G*  I hope it's a hit!. </p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Extra Blanket Night</title>
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    <published>2008-05-09T03:07:52Z</published>
    <updated>2008-05-09T03:24:16Z</updated>

    <summary>Our weathermen are saying that it will be an extra blanket night. This is one of my favorite times of the year. I don&apos;t care for heat, and I really don&apos;t care for frostbitten toes and nose. I love cool...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Our weathermen are saying that it will be an extra blanket night.  This is one of my favorite times of the year.  I don't care for heat, and I really don't care for frostbitten toes and nose.  I love cool weather, both during the day and at night.  This is great sleeping weather!</p>

<p>As a matter of fact....I think it's bed time!</p>

<p>I hope you all sleep well, and find yourself refreshed and comfortable when tomorrow arrives!</p>

<p>From ghoulies and ghosties and long-leggedy beasties and things that go bump in the night...Dear Lord preserve us!</p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>I&apos;m in Trouble, Again...</title>
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    <published>2008-05-07T20:43:39Z</published>
    <updated>2008-05-07T21:12:51Z</updated>

    <summary>This is a difficult entry to write, but I&apos;m in trouble with my Mother, again. This happens with a fair degree of regularity. Mother has a very comfortable life with us, but I&apos;m confident that she would rather live with...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This is a difficult entry to write, but I'm in trouble with my Mother, again.  This happens with a fair degree of regularity.  Mother has a very comfortable life with us, but I'm confident that she would rather live with any of my siblings.  On the surface, this seems like the ideal situation.  She has the front half of our house, and all the storage she wants in the basement.  She has total access to the kitchen and the laundry and we've created container gardens for her on the sidewalk so that she can keep her hand in at gardening, now that she can no longer get into the regular gardens.</p>

<p>I take my mother to all her hair and doctor appointments, and to exercise three mornings a week.  We stop at the bank, grocery shop and occasionally hit specialty stores together.  I ask for her input on meals, and have forced myself not to nag her about what she eats (butter, chocolate, crackers, ice cream etc.) or doesn't eat (protein, veggies).  I'm the person who took her to all her chemo appointments when she had colon cancer.  I'm the one who hosts the Empty Nester Sewing circle once a month so that she can be among her friends from church.  I'm also the one who takes her to the Red Hat Lady functions.</p>

<p>Unfortunately, I'm also the impatient one.  When I call you to dinner, I am ready to have you sit at the table.  Meals don't mean as much to  Mother these days, so once we get her to the kitchen, and deal with a resting place for her cane, we still have to surmount the obstacle of getting her seated and served.  Generally, she sees it as a social hour. By that time of day I frequently don't have what it takes to stand and chat, knowing that it will delay the time when I can sit and put my feet up for the evening.</p>

<p>My mother is very attuned to criticism and sees it where it doesn't exist.  Recently she has taken to telling people that she is very fortunate that we have been willing to "put up with her."  I'm sure that my impatience has leaked out....and I need to find a way to accept that there is nothing as important right now as peace in my household, and my mother's comfort.</p>

<p>My mother needs the security of knowing that she is wanted, and welcome.  Don't we all feel that way?  We made the choice to have her live with us. We never said...."Come live with us for the next ten years."  She has actually been with us for nineteen years.  I certainly hope, should I get to be ninety-one, that someone will care for me with compassion, and have more patience than I seem to be able to corral.</p>

<p>So, as we near Mother's Day, I'm contemplating ways to make Mother happy.  The first entry on my checklist is.....MORE PATIENCE!</p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Mark Your Calendar!</title>
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    <published>2008-05-06T23:57:09Z</published>
    <updated>2008-05-07T00:02:18Z</updated>

    <summary>Dear Husband mowed for the first time this year on May 6th! We don&apos;t generally push the mowing season. One of our neighbors was out mowing two weeks ago, but he has a pocket yard that is treated by one...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Dear Husband mowed for the first time this year on May 6th!</p>

<p>We don't generally push the mowing season.  One of our neighbors was out mowing two weeks ago, but he has a pocket yard that is treated by one of the lawn companies.  Our lawn finally needed attention today.</p>

<p>We had a beautiful sunny morning, but clouds have been moving in, and we'll have rain later tonight, tomorrow and tomorrow night.  This will probably kill off our tulips and daffodils, but it will make way for the lilacs, peonies and iris, so it's not all bad.</p>

<p>Dear Husband takes the boat to Lake Michigan on May 16th and quilting season arrives the same day! *G*</p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Best Laid Plans...</title>
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    <published>2008-05-02T17:01:57Z</published>
    <updated>2008-05-02T17:15:39Z</updated>

    <summary>I had intended to remove the screens tomorrow, clean the inside windows, wipe up all the spider webs, clean the screens and re-insert them. It sounds worse than it is. We don&apos;t have screens on every window, and they are...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I had intended to remove the screens tomorrow, clean the inside windows, wipe up all the spider webs, clean the screens and re-insert them.  It sounds worse than it is.  We don't have screens on every window, and they are taken out from the inside.  It's a rite of Spring, part of spring cleaning that really needs to be done after a long winter.</p>

<p>I could get this job done despite the heavy rain coming through, but there have been a few changes to the game plan.  Elegante Mother was not feeling well on Thursday, so she canceled her standing hair appointment.  I made another appointment for her this Saturday morning at 8:30.</p>

<p>Then, I'm sad to say, a friend from the Empty Nesters group at Elegante Mother's church has passed away.  He was a fascinating man.  HE had just recently been moved to a nursing home.  His 88th birthday was about two weeks ago, so the Empty Nesters all gathered to celebrate with him.  Walt had been in the Army Air Corps stationed in England during World War II.  He became very fond of English tea, not just the drink, but the afternoon meal.  The EN group arranged for small sandwiches, sausage rolls, fruit, punch, tea, and birthday cake.  Walt couldn't get enough to eat!  I suspect the food at the nursing home was radically different from what he was used to eating.</p>

<p>The ladies of the Empty Nesters got together and designed a wall hanging which one of them created using embroidery machines.  It commemorated Walt's life, with squares about England, and Wisconsin.  We all signed the back of the wall hanging.</p>

<p>So, it was with great sadness that I learned he had passed away early this week.  There will be a service Saturday afternoon, followed by a reception.  We've offered to provide Caesar salad, brownies and lemon bars for the reception, and I'll serve while EM sits and talks with friends.</p>

<p>Shortly after the reception, we have to hurry and get a light dinner.  One of my talented great-nephews is performing in "Les Miserables" and we have promised to be in the audience.  EM is going to be exhausted!  This is a lot more than she is used to doing.in one day.</p>

<p>So.....clean windows have been set back a day or two in favor of much more important activities.  I can't say I really mind.</p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Gone, But Not Forgotten</title>
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    <id>tag:www.redeaglespirit.com,2008:/arrrgh//6.4971</id>

    <published>2008-05-02T16:36:35Z</published>
    <updated>2008-05-02T16:57:32Z</updated>

    <summary> We have several plants that are harbingers of spring. They bloom when all the others are still thinking about creating flowers, and are opening their leaves to the sun. My father had a star magnolia outside the windows of...</summary>
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        <name>Buffy</name>
        <uri>http://arrrgh.redeaglespirit.com</uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p><span class="mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image" style="display: inline;"><img alt="Magnolia for Blog.JPG" src="http://www.redeaglespirit.com/arrrgh/Magnolia%20for%20Blog.JPG" width="270" height="360" class="mt-image-left" style="float: left; margin: 0 20px 20px 0;" /></span></p>

<p>We have several plants that are harbingers of spring.  They bloom when all the others are still thinking about creating flowers, and are opening their leaves to the sun.</p>

<p>My father had a star magnolia outside the windows of his last office, what he called "the shop."  The magnolia was planted on a rather steep hillside in Stone County, Missouri.  You can imagine how difficult it was to water that shrub adequately.  First there was run-off because it hadn't been set into the hillside properly,and second, the ground absorbed the water and it drained off immediately.  I didn't understand these things at the time, and I thought this little plant was destined to be just three feet tall.</p>

<p>More than twenty years later, I bought a star magnolia, a tip of the hat to my Dad's choice of shrubs.  It's planted just outside the window to MY office.  This "shrub" has grown to be 18-20 feet tall and the blooms were awesome this year!  As you can see from the picture, the entire plant was densely covered with blooms.</p>

<p>The CPA's assistant came to visit a couple of weeks ago when the magnolia was at its peak.  I had the windows open, and a gentle breeze was coming in past the magnolia.  The scent was amazing!  Our heads swiveled in unison to sniff the air! *G*</p>

<p>Unfortunately, the blooms on our star magnolia last barely a week, less if the temperatures are extreme.  So they have given way to the daffodils and tulips and other flowering shrubs.</p>

<p>We have one pod of very early tulips that I believe are the "Darwin" variety.  Usually tulips die a quick death in the clay of my gardens, but these have lasted for easily fifteen years.  For some reason, the chipmunks who live in that garden leave them alone.  They seem to have the same protective scent or taste that daffodils have, and pests leave them alone.</p>

<p><span class="mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image" style="display: inline;"><img alt="Tulips for Blog.JPG" src="http://www.redeaglespirit.com/arrrgh/Tulips%20for%20Blog.JPG" width="360" height="270" class="mt-image-left" style="float: left; margin: 0 20px 20px 0;" /></span></p>

<p>I love the bright color.  It's a shock to the senses so early in spring!</p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Share a Square</title>
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    <id>tag:www.redeaglespirit.com,2008:/arrrgh//6.4970</id>

    <published>2008-04-29T19:26:50Z</published>
    <updated>2008-04-29T20:04:13Z</updated>

    <summary>I&apos;ve had the great pleasure to participate in the Share a Square Project founded and managed by Shelly Tucker. Last year, Shelly asked people if they would please send her a six inch crocheted granny square to be used in...</summary>
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        <name>Buffy</name>
        <uri>http://arrrgh.redeaglespirit.com</uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I've had the great pleasure to participate in the Share a Square Project founded and managed by <a href="http://http://thiseclecticlife.com/">Shelly Tucker</a>.  Last year, Shelly asked people if they would please send her a six inch crocheted granny square to be used in afghans for kids who will be attending cancer camp this June in Fort Worth, Texas.  Shelly hoped that enough people would donate squares that they might be able to make 140 afghans, each having 48 squares.  (Let me do the math.....hold on while I take my shoes off.......Um, that would be 6720 squares.)  Shelly also wanted all the squares in an afghan to be from 48 different people.  The squares have name tags with messages for the kids tied to them.  Each child will also get a special bag to hold all these name tags as a memory of the 48 people who cared enough to send them a square.</p>

<p>A number of the ladies in my exercise class donated squares to the cause.  I think we may have sent around 300 squares.  I lost count as I sent the third box of squares to Shelly.  Late this winter, I realized that Shelly still needed help to assemble afghans, so I volunteered to take on two of them, and then I ran to my exercise friends and begged them to help me!  And boy, did they!  We finished the two afghans and I was able to send them off last week. This project has brought us a LOT of joy!</p>

<p>This is the first of the two afghans:</p>

<p><span class="mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image" style="display: inline;"><img alt="Afghan2 for blog.JPG" src="http://www.redeaglespirit.com/arrrgh/Afghan2%20for%20blog.JPG" width="324" height="243" class="mt-image-left" style="float: left; margin: 0 20px 20px 0;" /></span>   </p>

<p>  <br />
Sometime around January Shelly realized that she had more squares than she needed.  She thanked people for their generosity and said they could stop crocheting squares.  A month or two later, it almost sounded as though she was BEGGING people to stop sending squares.  I think she has been inundated with over 10,000 so far.  You can click on the link above, and in the upper right corner of her blog, you'll see a link to Share a Square.  Go visit to she how they are doing.  And, I hope you'll consider sending Shelly a donation to help defray the registration expenses for the campers.  Each child is assessed $150, and anything we can do to help make it possible for them to get to camp is a GOOD THING!                                                                                                                             <br />
Here's the second afghan we assembled:                                                                                                                                     <br />
<span class="mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image" style="display: inline;"><img alt="Afghan 1 for blog.JPG" src="http://www.redeaglespirit.com/arrrgh/Afghan%201%20for%20blog.JPG" width="252" height="336" class="mt-image-left" style="float: left; margin: 0 20px 20px 0;" /></span></p>

<p>Shelly, thanks for letting us share the joy!  Congratulations on a job well done!</p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Well, Drat!</title>
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    <id>tag:www.redeaglespirit.com,2008:/arrrgh//6.4969</id>

    <published>2008-04-28T12:07:28Z</published>
    <updated>2008-04-28T12:19:56Z</updated>

    <summary>Last week I had my head down, ploughing through the work on my desk so that we could take a three-day weekend to visit with my sister, Nan, for her birthday. I didn&apos;t have much time to read my e-mail...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Buffy</name>
        <uri>http://arrrgh.redeaglespirit.com</uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Last week I had my head down, ploughing through the work on my desk so that we could take a three-day weekend to visit with my sister, Nan, for her birthday.  I didn't have much time to read my e-mail and even less to visit my favorite blogs. </p>

<p>I was irritated this morning to learn that I had missed wishing one of my favorite on-line and real life friends "HAPPY BIRTHDAY!"  How could I have forgotten?! Luckily, <a href="http://bogieblog.typepad.com/">Bogie,</a> her daughter, bid her mother a happy birthday, so I figured out my error.  </p>

<p>No doubt I have missed a whole lot of birthdays on-line.  I hope you all had wonderful celebrations of your special day.</p>

<p>So...<a href="http://jelliclecat.typepad.com/">COP CAR.....</a>I missed the right day, but I hope you know that my wish is most sincere, when I tell you that I hope you had a great day, and that you did something special to commemorate the momentous occasion of your birth! *G*  Happy Birthday, my friend!.</p>

<p>Go read what Cop Car has to say on April 20th.  I like her thoughts about what the focus of our election should and should NOT be!  Way to go, CC!</p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>We&apos;re Off to See....</title>
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    <id>tag:www.redeaglespirit.com,2008:/arrrgh//6.4968</id>

    <published>2008-04-25T13:14:47Z</published>
    <updated>2008-04-25T13:21:26Z</updated>

    <summary>....My sister, Nan, and her family! Nan&apos;s birthday is this weekend, and it&apos;s Prom time for the girls. Elegante Mother, Dear Husband and I are going to amble down through the fields today. Our oldest sister, My-Sister-The-Nurse, and her husband...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Buffy</name>
        <uri>http://arrrgh.redeaglespirit.com</uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p>....My sister, Nan, and her family!  Nan's birthday is this weekend, and it's Prom time for the girls.  Elegante Mother, Dear Husband and I are going to amble down through the fields today.  Our oldest sister, My-Sister-The-Nurse, and her husband (yet to be nicknamed), will be joining us on Saturday.</p>

<p>Second Son  is going to stay home and keep an eye on Ed.  Someone has to be his doorperson!</p>

<p>We have a car to finish packing, and some last minute details to attend to.  We'll be back late on Sunday.</p>

<p>I hope you all have a great weekend; I expect to!</p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Pruning</title>
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    <id>tag:www.redeaglespirit.com,2008:/arrrgh//6.4966</id>

    <published>2008-04-20T22:32:13Z</published>
    <updated>2008-04-20T23:00:04Z</updated>

    <summary>I&apos;ve had a full day, today. I can recall as a child that I thought Sunday was a lazy day, but it&apos;s been a long time since I&apos;ve frittered away a Sunday. The CPA&apos;s assistant, who is also a CPA,...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Buffy</name>
        <uri>http://arrrgh.redeaglespirit.com</uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I've had a full day, today.  I can recall as a child that I thought Sunday was a lazy day, but it's been a long time since I've frittered away a Sunday.</p>

<p>The CPA's assistant, who is also a CPA, is going to visit us tomorrow to help me with some accounting problems.  I've been trying to clear things off my desk, and make a list of all that I need to have her oversee.  I still have a stack of filing (don't I always), but I managed to clear the important things off my list, and I can get to the filing and a few less important things tomorrow morning.</p>

<p>My next big block of work was centered on the herb garden.  It seems that when I have the time to work in the gardens the weather is foul, and when the weather is gorgeous, I have too much work that must be completed inside!  However, we managed to get one of those rare spring days when the weather was beautiful, and I could get out to enjoy the gardens.</p>

<p>I started by pruning back the oregano, which took the largest part of my gardening time.  I have six or eight mounds of oregano, enough to supply a small town, and I followed the current thinking and let the superstructure of the plants remain in place over the winter.  The oregano is leafing out.  If I had waited much longer to prune, I wouldn't have been able to avoid taking some of the new growth.  I took a picture before I started.  I'll try to get one of the pruned plants, and one a week later.  You won't be able to tell it's been pruned by next weekend.</p>

<p>I cleaned out part of the chat walkway today.  I left a few volunteer Shasta daisies, and some lamb's ears and thyme, but I pulled up the garlic chives that have spread.  If you don't get those chives before they establish themselves, you have to dig to the other side of the world to get them out!</p>

<p>As I was working a bird sitting above my head started calling.  I have NO idea what kind of bird I was listening to.  For all my musical training, I find myself unable to read the call charts in the bird books, or describe to someone what the call sounded like.  What was interesting about this particular call was that half-way through a bird across the grove picked up the call and imitated it.  I don't know if the birds were looking for mates, or if they were trying to establish territory, but the timing of the repeat, and the pitch of the repeat were perfect!</p>

<p>I planted three Italian Flat-leaved parsleys earlier this week, and a bunny or a deer had a fine meal one night!  There are still some leaves, and I'm fairly sure that the plants will come back.  However, when I plant the spinach this week, I'll surround it with circles of hardware cloth!</p>

<p>It was a joy to be out today.  I don't work as fast or as long as I once did, but I probably enjoy my time in the gardens even more.</p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>Signs of Spring</title>
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    <id>tag:www.redeaglespirit.com,2008:/arrrgh//6.4965</id>

    <published>2008-04-18T20:40:11Z</published>
    <updated>2008-04-18T20:47:47Z</updated>

    <summary>As I sit here at my computer, I can see the star magnolia just outside the window, and it has just begun to open. All it took was a little consistent warmth. The daffodils along the east side of the...</summary>
    <author>
        <name>Buffy</name>
        <uri>http://arrrgh.redeaglespirit.com</uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p>As I sit here at my computer, I can see the star magnolia just outside the window, and it has just begun to open.  All it took was a little consistent warmth.  The daffodils along the east side of the house are doing well, and I can see oriental poppy greens at the turn of the sidewalk.  The short, scruffy Darwin tulips are open, too.</p>

<p>The scilla or squill that I wrote about earlier is a mass of tiny blue flowers against a green background, and the iris and day lilies are coming along nicely.</p>

<p>The only off note in the news is that the forsythia blooms look spotty.  Perhaps I need to give it a little more time.  I  know that it blooms after the magnolia has opened, so perhaps I'm just seeing the early color, and the rest of the bloom is yet to come.  This is a Lynwood Gold variety which has not been pruned, so it has the traditional arch to the canes.</p>

<p>Sunday, I'll have to go out to check the shrub rose to see if there are any signs of new growth since we pruned so hard, and I want to check the peonies to see if there are any signs of starts coming through the dirt.</p>

<p>I love this part of the year. There's so much to watch for!</p>]]>
        
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