When I was a kid, it was common for men who had been accused of rape to get off scot free by using the defense that “She ASKED for it.” Specifically, I’m thinking of the cases where the men suggested that the woman’s manner of dress advertized her availability.
\nKids today bare the oddest body parts. The girl’s clothing is very revealing, while the boys are wearing baggies that cover them from elbow to toe. Are the girls going to be accused of “asking” to be molested because they dress in what seems to be the fashion of the day?
\nFashion and youth can be a scary mix. Part of our nation is very body conscious. Thinner is better, and clothes that show off how thin you are validate that premise. To be popular, you have to resemble the models in the magazines, or the young Hollywood stars. Young girls believe that what they see and read must be the real world. Sports Illustrated does an annual swimsuit issue that flies off the shelves. Does the moral climate in our entertainment world foster the idea that women who don’t dress modestly are available to any man who wants them?
\nI have a series of questions about this. Do you think that women “Ask” to be molested by the clothes they choose to wear? Should we allow men to be excused for rape or molestation based on this arguement? Is there a point beyond which a man cannot control himself in relation to a woman?
\nI’d like to live in a world where, when a female says “NO!” the man accepts her word without question. And, if my body is saying “yes,” but my mouth is saying “no,” don’t argue with my mouth. I’d also like to have faith that men can control themselves. Is that unrealistic?
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When I was a kid, it was common for men who had been accused of rape to get off scot free by using the defense that “She ASKED for it.” Specifically, I’m thinking of the cases where the men suggested … Continue reading