A Job

I HAVE to find a job!
How do you go about figuring out what to do, especially in THIS job market, when you have done only three jobs in your adult life? I know my strengths, but I also know my weaknesses, and I’m having trouble believing that someone would care to hire someone my age, with the skills I have to offer.
I feel a bit overwhelmed.
I knew there would come a day when my husband and his partner disbanded their company. Our partner is older, and has already reached retirement age. Dear Husband is coming up on it quickly. Unfortunately, I’m a bit younger than they are, and still need to work.
My youngest sister suggested that I might be working for MickeyD for a few years. Unfortunately, I don’t think I’ll be able to do a job that requires I stand all day.
I can remember driving my mother somewhere, talking about this situation. It must have been eight or ten years ago, so I was concerned about it even then. At the time, I was worried about having to work away from home, when Mother might need me. I turned to her and flippantly said, “Pehaps I’d be a success at phone sex!” Not a rise……not even an eye roll.
I am so envious of those of you who can reinvent yourselves and move on with your lives. I need to get out of my rut, and figure out what I might be able to do that pays more than minimum wage.
I presently manage an office of one. I use Quick Books (with occasional help from the CPA), Word, and Excel. On the right keyboard, I can probably type roughly 60 wpm. (I plan to ditch the streamlined keyboard I have and go back to an older model with higher keys and a caps lock light.) For my present company I am responsible for Accounts Receivable, Accounts Payable, banking, filing, and I am the back up Payroll person. I determine expenses per job and provide material waivers. I am a notary public. I also manage an LLC which rents two business condos. I can do double entry manual bookkeeping, but I doubt there is a company left that doesn’t do it’s books electronically.
In another life I was a grade school band director. I don’t wish to substitute. It’s a whole different world out there since I last taught, and I’m not prepared to deal with kids on a daily basis. However, from that experience I bring the ability to organize large groups of people, to plan goals, and determine the steps necessary to reach those goals. I’m trying to apply those abilities to my current situation, but it’s easier to do when you are not focusing on your own needs.
I have the feeling that this is going to be an on-going series of posts. Feel free to jump in with suggestions, or tell me to stop whining. The door is open.

2 thoughts on “A Job

  1. I am so sorry to hear of the situation that you are in and can understand how very worried you must be. It’s important to remember that you do have lots and lots of experience in several areas. I am certain that there must be someone out there looking for someone like you.I’m afraid that I’ve no personal experience of job hunting of the sort you need but have come up with a couple of suggestions which I offer as possible starting points. I hope that they will be of some help:-
    1. Find someone starting a new business (perhaps an adult child of friends/ acquaintances) who would welcome someone like you as an office manager/admin support/general factotum. I am sure you would be able to help them get their business off to a sound start;
    2. Become freelance, providing admin/business support to very small businesses (perhaps one person or a family) in the area who are good at repairing/selling/etc but would welcome support in the area of running the actual business/ doing necessary paperwork.
    I mentioned your situation to the Husband who suggested that you advertise your services on the Internet as looking for an employer. I understand that this happens more and more nowadays (i.e. Craigslist or similar)
    I am sure that there’s someone out there looking for someone with your expertise and experience.. You have so much to offer and many employers want someone reliable and experienced, rather than a flibbertigibbet straight from school with no experience or commitment to their employer.
    I’m not sure how useful this is, but I offer it in the hope it helps, at least a bit. My thoughts are with you.

  2. Adele, thanks for your comments! They give me a different perspective, and have helped me to see other options. I hadn’t thought about Craiglist. My stepson could help me with that.
    I hope, eventually, to either manage a small office, or do bookkeeping for a number of small businesses, either working from my home, or going from office to office. I’m adaptable, and that’s probably something in my favor.
    I knew this was going to come. I should have been better prepared for it.
    Thanks, for your help!

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