Melting Pot

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After blogging for a while, it's hard to remember what I've written about here, written about elsewhere, commented on others' blogs, e-mailed in response to comments, dreamed about, thought about or read somewhere else. This information age is sometimes too much for my wee noggin. So forgive the T-bone if this all sounds strangely familiar.

I take offense at the notion that to take part in culture, one must visit a museum and look at paintings painted by old dead people. Or that one must don itchy clothes, sit in a stuffy theater and see strange people doing strange things upon the stage. I do enjoy art, and I do enjoy theater, but culture is all around us. You don't have to look somewhere special to be enriched, enlightened or entertained.

We in the United States may fall into that thinking because as rich as our history is, today's culture is measured by mass marketing and a packaged blandness that stretches from sea to shining sea. There may be a measure of that on the global level, too (international readers will have to weigh in on that; I've never lived anywhere but the USA). So we seek things that are different, or that change our McEnvironment so we can feel special for a few fleeting moments. We turn off the TV and try to turn on our brains.

Hey, I'm all for turning off the TV and actually thinking. Step away from the computer every now and then. Commune with nature (besides getting drunk and peeing on a tree), read something (other than Entertainment Weekly or the Sunday paper), go see something (other than the latest Hollycrap production) and go do something (other than getting drunk and communing with nature). My basic point is, culture is what you make it. You can make your minutes count more if you're actually living them rather than seeing them whiz by, no matter where you are or what you're doing.

Here's some examples:
• Even a zip through the drive-thru at McFatty's can be a cultural experience. Notice the details you see on the building, the McCorporate® names on the menu, the accent of the person taking your order. It's a good example of the bad part of American culture, but it can make an interesting study if you breathe in the sights, smells and sounds before whiffing down those two all-beef patties. Our culture is also apparently Starbucks, although I've still never set foot in one.

• The big-box superstore, such as Off-the-Wall-mart, and on a lesser degree the supermarket, is a distinctly American concept (borrowed from the open-air markets of yesteryear from around the world) of being able to buy just about anything you could ever possibly need in one place. But instead of filling your cart and going home, take a look at all the people there with you. Rich, poor, hot, ugly, fat, skinny, stupid, intelligent, smelly, pleasantly-scented and everything in between in all sorts of beautiful, diverse colors and moods. This is the melting pot sociologists were talking about years ago. That concept didn't really come true without a gathering place, because we tend to stick to our own kind (whatever that may be). Without Wal-Mart, we'd be a souffle of many layers, never really mixing it up.

• In America, except in large cities that have services and public transportation, it's about getting into your own car and driving 40 miles to get somewhere. This is true in Texas where everything's pretty spread out. Instead of cranking up the radio and zoning out, look at the fabric of that gray ribbon you're traveling on. Sure, on interstate road trips, the ubiquitousness of the gas stations and fast food wears you down. But there's some culture hidden there, whether it's the bizarre roadside attraction, the spooky truck stop or the small towns in between the nothingness.

• You don't have to read the latest best-seller or an historic literary tome to sample the culture. What are you doing now? You're reading a blog. Sure, it's not high culture by any means, but it's a part of who we are.

• Watching a children's video is culture. It has to be, because I end up humming Veggie Tales and Sesame Street songs from time to time. It means ours is a culture that gets the kids watching TV early. As long as it's mixed with other experiences, then it's a good thing, right? Right?

I've experienced more culture eating at a backwoods seafood/barbecue joint than I did going to see Les Miserables. I enjoyed the theater production. But with corn stuck between my teeth, sauce running down my elbows and a buttermilk biscuit in one hand, I got to see hard-working people who know how to have a good time. I noticed the textures, smells, and conversation. We had to ride on a two-car ferry across the river to get there. Rolls of paper towels were placemats, napkins and bibs – something many chain restaurants try to replicate (Joe's Crab Shack, et. al.) but can't get right.

Saw a similar scene in a small-town Dairy Queen, where I watched and listened to a group of regulars (they had their own coffee cups on a rack above a public sink) talk about working in the oil fields. One of them had his son with him to show him the ropes of the business.

What's your favorite way to experience culture, and what is "culture" to you? There are no wrong answers in Blogland!

10 Comments

I'm right there with you on the blog comment.

I've been seeing some interesting ones in the last few weeks since my wife has been searching and sharing.

IMO, this period will be documented like none other in history. In addition to all the detail in blogs, we're leaving behind all kinds of photos from phones and Palms that would never have been taken.

Culture....culture...well, I know my favorite "culture" thing to do is people watch. All the time. Wherever I go. Is that bad? It's just so fascinating! Culture can be, I think, everything around me, happening right now. The little things, such as the way I cook, the way we talk, the way I interact with my kids. Very thought-provoking.

Culture. Sure it's everywhere. I like to see culture on the Freeways in S. CA. We have every kind of driver around. Slow, Crazy, Old, stupid, etc...

I too LOVE to People Watch. I enjoy being the catty girl that I am, but at the same time, I know people are watching me and I have a whole lot of culture to show.

Great post T-bone!

I don't know...for some strange reason to-day, the word "culture" brought to mind Yogurt.

Everything written here is true. But so is the "other side." I've lived in S. FL for 5 years, after clocking in 20 some odd years in Wash. DC. It took 4 months for me to miss the Kennedy Center, The National Gallery, Adams Morgan, Georgetown, The 9:30 Club, Movies (not the HollyCrap shite of which you speak) at various little "artsy fartsy" cinemas, block parties down in Cardozo/U-Street, Classical concerts at Catholic University, etc. etc. etc. So, yes...culture can be on that lonesome highway heading West to Utah or Idaho or...even TeJas (damn, Los Lonely Boys are now ringing in my ears). But she (culture) also exists in those loathed places from which you might tend to run. Most importantly, though, CULTURE is in people--especially the immigrants, the foreigners, and...those well-travelled, both throughout the US and abroad.

Oh, and, yes...it also exists in yogurt.

Its funny all the markings and history that we leave on the internet.

You definately set a standard.

luv ya.

Yes van, but just like everything else...HISTORY will erase our footprints. Time smoothes over everything and we recede into oblivion (Bolivion if you're Mike Tyson)...as we all should.

Yo T-Bone, Me and the Mrs. have been Disneyland Annual Passholders for 10 years. The days when it is crowded we just grab a Coke on Main Street and PEOPLE WATCH!!! Talk about a people watchers paradise...it's the complete spectrum! Good stuff.

How dare you make me think at 4:00 in the morning! :)

I associate theater/museum/art "culture" with BORING. I have never learned to appreciate art. I was in the Met in NYC and ended up sitting on the front steps because I was so bored. Culture to me is anything that I am interested in outside my own home - swimming, dance, spending time with the fam. We are enmeshed with culture. We just need to change our perspectives so that we can appreciate it.

i like going to the mall... watching people. you can learn alot of our culture there.

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