I'm posting this under "Are you serious?" with good reason. Why is it that when a woman loses her temper, it's gotta be the hormones 'talking"? Why is it not possible that there are plausible reasons for finally reaching a point that you display anger?
If the hormones were at fault, you might be likely to anger more quickly - possibly. But does that preclude an inciting event? It drives me crazy to talk to people that can't give you a straight answer when asked a point-blank question. How hard it that???
I know why a person diverts to a different topic when put on the spot. The obvious answer is to avoid the point-blank question or issue. Obfuscating the real issue allows a person to create a distraction. The real masters at this game are the ones who can distract long enough to cast blame in the distraction. Now they're off the hook, you're still pissed off but for new reasons, and you are left looking like the problem. Do you follow?
A circle or switch-back is a dangerous and ugly way to communicate if you are locked in "wedded matrimony" It's hard to trust someone who can't give you a straight answer, nor someone who is shifts blame. It's dangerous ground.
thats very true