November 2002 Archives

what is love?

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I was checking mail this evening and someone sent me this link...I've only read the first part of the series but I just HAD to post it here
What is love?
*will open in a new window*

Quote:
"Love is perhaps more easily described by what it is not. Love is not fear, hurt, pain, jealousy, bitterness, hate, separateness, lust, attachment, aggressiveness, ego-centeredness, indifference, possessiveness, suppression - the list goes on."
gee why did I feel the need to bold that one word...hmmm...
anyone who knows me knows the answer :smile so I think I'll just leave it at that...and be very grateful that I've found love, real love :kiss

yep, again...

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another from A N A R C H T I C A

Dude! You have an American Attitude! Sweet!
Dude! You have an American Attitude! Sweet!
You're a gun-toting, bar-dancing, ya'll-saying, t.v. show-copying,
war-waging, ass-patting, hamburger over-eater.
Take the What the Hell Kinda Attitude is That? Quiz at aka cooties

another silly test

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Stolden off of A N A R C H T I C A

I'm A Taligihad Terrorist!

borrowed from blogNessie.com

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more mail forwards

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those who know me know I belong to 'a few' lists :rofl
those who read this blog know that when I get something I particularly like I usually will post it here...this is one of those times...
I was cleaning out my mail today and came across this, and realized I wanted to put it somewhere it wouldn't get lost, as I usually try to do most of them but need a reminder often occasionally :smile...so here it is...


ONE.
Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.


TWO.
Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.


THREE.
Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.


FOUR.
When you say, "I love you", mean it.


FIVE.
When you say, "I'm sorry", look the person in the eye.


SIX.
Be engaged at least six months before you get married. **note, I do not necessarily agree with this one!**


SEVEN.
Believe in love at first sight.


EIGHT.
Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.


NINE.
Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.


TEN.
In disagreements, fight fairly. Please No name calling.


ELEVEN.
Don't judge people by their relatives.


TWELVE.
Talk slowly but think quickly.


THIRTEEN.
When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"

FOURTEEN.
Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN.
Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.


SIXTEEN.
When you lose, don't lose the lesson.


SEVENTEEN.
Remember the three R's:
Respect for self;
Respect for others;
Responsibility for all your actions.


EIGHTEEN.
Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.


NINETEEN.
When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.


TWENTY.
Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.


TWENTY ONE.
Spend some time alone.

I thought it was called geek?

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found at KG's Hideaway



take the nerd test.
and go to mewing.net. a nerd utopia.

ok, few untruths here
I don't spend ALL my time online, and my table manners are NOT that bad
the rest of it...ummm..welllll...not EVERY computer language *G*

feeling old?

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I'm sure we've all seen these in one form or another, but I've always enjoyed reading them, so if it bores you just move along :biggrin

Just in case you weren't feeling too old today, this will certainly change things. Each year the staff at Beloit College in Wisconsin puts together a list to try to give the faculty a sense of the mind set of this year's incoming freshmen.

Here's this year's list:

The people who are starting college this fall across the nation were born in 1983.
They are too young to remember the space shuttle blowing up.
Their lifetime has always included AIDS.
Bottle caps have always been screw off and plastic!
The CD was introduced the year they were born.
They have always had an answering machine.
They have always had cable.
They cannot fathom not having a remote control.
Jay Leno has always been on the Tonight Show.
Popcorn has always been cooked in the microwave.
They never took a swim and thought about Jaws.
They can't imagine what hard contact lenses are.
They don't know who Mork was or where he was from.
They never heard: "Where's the Beef?", "I'd walk a mile for a Camel", or "de plane Boss, de plane".
They do not care who shot J. R. and have no idea who J.R. even is.
Michael Jackson has always been white.
McDonald's never came in Styrofoam containers. They don't have a clue how to use a typewriter.

Do you feel old yet? :sad

is that so???

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well...that's very ummm...interesting...

link via A N A R C H T I C A

no I haven't!!

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lifted from Bottled Voices @ Mandieleigh.com


What Dogma character are you?

brought to you by Quizilla

don't worry babe, not gonna happen *s*

masters of fate?

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Working nights on a rainy non-holiday weekend often gives one way to much time to think...expecially when everything is balanced and I'm not (accidentally) deleting the check-inn program!

I've been very frustrated this last month, between issues with the new system at work, a co-workers house burning down, renovation (also at work) being pulled in 10 different directions at once by family and friends and wondering when the other shoe will drop in matters I'd rather not post about, it's no wonder I want to run away! (needless to say to the one thing in my life that is going absolutely wonderfully :smile) but I digress...

I have let some issues get to me a little to much, things I would have, under normal circumstances overlooked, have upset me more than I should have let them, and stuff I would have normally played "devils advocate" on and tried to get others to see things in a different light, I've instead gotten right in the middle of, even though I'm not certain how it all got started to begin with.

Anyway...tonights thought's...
I've always been one that believed we are each responsible for our own happiness (and still believe that no one but you can make you happy, it just depends how you go about doing it) and if you're miserable, well it's your own damn fault (meaning don't go blaming your parents, partner, spouse, etc...if you're unhappy there, leave dammit) however, recent events have been showing me this may be an overly simplistic view...
When I was married I was miserable, yet I stayed, due to reasons again I'd rather not post in such a public forum, those that need to know, know why I did...
but here lately, I've been the same way for different reasons, but the outcome is the same, this time however, there is nothing I can do about it! (do you get the impression I'm not a really patient person? :lol)
I know it will pass, I even know what the outcome will be when it does, however that is doing nothing for my frustration level at the current time!!
I'm not really sure where I'm going with this thought...(heck maybe I just felt the need to post something besides asinine test results!)
so lets take a poll, of the 9 or so readers I might have left (2 of which might make it this far into this ramble) are we each "master of our own feelings" or possibly do outside influences and circumstances have more to do with it than possibly we would like to admit?
cause I'm just not sure anymore...

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